How 5 Things CHANGES The Way You Approach Sex Toys
The variety of sex toys is surprising. Sex toys change from purely male or purely female sex toys to toys which you can use by both sexes. There are also some sex toys that may also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.
The Purpose Of Sex Toys
Some adult toys aid the man’s erection, stimulate the feminine genitals to become more sensitive or provide a different feel to ‘normal’ sex. Other adult toys offer an ‘environment’ for variations in sex, for instance so called orgy bed linens. Sometimes they are used to greatly help a person who has difficulty with unaided sex to attain sexual satisfaction. However most adult toys provide a new way to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.
Using sex toys can offer new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. It can also provide a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.
The usual expectation is a masturbator provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual activity or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation supplied by the sex toy.
Types of Sex Toys
Vibrating Sex Toys
Probably the most popular sex toys are ‘vibrators’ which, because the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They’re mainly utilized to stimulate the clitoris, but may also be used to stimulate any other portion of the female body or that of a man’s.
The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker than a pencil). They often have an interior battery (or two) which powers a little electric motor. Sometimes the battery power and controller are external and linked to the vibrator by way of a wire. This motor is fitted with a little, out of balance, weight mounted on the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator right into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.
With a vibrator that has a controller, because the power is increased the speed of the motor increases sufficient reason for it both rate and strength of vibration. Both the strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you discover the sex toy. The best effect might not be as strong and as fast as you possibly can. The optimum settings may well change as your amount of excitement builds. To get the very best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.
Different vibrators could have different characteristics and you may well find you prefer one combination much more than another and your preference may even vary depending on which part of your system you are stimulating.
Recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not only the static control of power/speed but also let you select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.
Additionally, there are other vibrating sex toys such as for example butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.
There are some adult toys that use other ways to supply mechanical stimulation. These usually be determined by a motor that makes the masturbator continually change its shape which provides sort of rotational movement or makes it move back and forth. The back and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air pump rather than a motor. The movements have been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that ‘penetrate’ the vagina and mouth simulators to give a guy a ‘blow job’.
On a bigger scale and many more expensive, you can find ‘sex machines’ that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.
Combination Sex Toys
So far we’ve covered vibrating, moving and thrusting sex toys. As you may have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering selection of combinations.
A common combination in many ‘Rabbit Style’ vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.
Many adult toys add varying textures with their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator could have ridges or soft spikes or perhaps a rippled shape.
Sensation Change Sex Toys
Some sex toys instead of provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.
For instance there are a number of sleeves to put on the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.
You can find rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man’s erection and also changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which might give a man’s partner greater sensations during penetration.
There are a wide selection of lubricants that may significantly change the feel of sex.
There are PVC and Polyurethane bed linens which are water and oil proof which you can use for slippery or messy sex.
Why Use A Sex Toy?
A good question is: why do people use a masturbator? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.
Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), adult toys can drive the imagination (being taken by way of a machine), provide variety (new methods to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences extremely hard with ‘normal body parts’ (particularly vibrating adult toys and electro-stimulation).
Where To Start
Should you have not tried a masturbator before and don’t yet have a good idea of everything you might like, try one of many simpler vibrators first. Most probably you will benefit from the experience and then begin to wonder what other delights can be found with more sophisticated vibrators along with other sex toys …